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Little known ways of divorce

When someone is a divorce newbie it's a bit of an unknown to put it mildly. The terminologies, the things which need to be in place, what you need to consider, how to be what to whom, when it's best to leave well alone, etc

This client was well down his divorce route having been separated for 12 months. He contacted me to get some help with some of the non-legal practicalities, such as holidays, time with the kids, dealing with the in-laws, introducing his new girlfriend to the children etc.

We also took some time to look at the other areas of his life to make sure that he was aware of where he was going and why - it's really important that you don't just drift along but have some intention in what you're doing - it doesn't matter if it takes a long time, but you do need to have some purpose as to your everyday stuff!

Within the 3 month period, he was up and off and relishing his life, and whilst everything wasn't totally settled legally, he was progressing personally.  This is what he feels the benefits of our time together gave him

'Understanding

Support

Sounding Board'

Posted on Sunday, May 11, 2008 at 02:09PM by Registered Commenter[Jackie Walker] in | Comments Off