The Divorce Coach

I've only had two clients so far who weren't yet at the stage when I could help - we didn't continue the working relationship as it's not something which is helpful to either party.

How would I know if you weren't ready and how would you know?

• You would be unwilling to accept responsibility for your actions.
• You would find what I was teaching and requesting too much of a tall order
• You would rather blame your ex/the outside world/other circumstances for the way you're feeling
• You will get a benefit from being where you are - perhaps sympathy, money, attention
• You will make excuses not to turn up on the call
• You will not yet be in sufficient pain to recognise that something has to change, and that the something is in your control

This isn't something which is right or wrong, it's just that our working relationship won't reap the benefits you think you want yet.  The time is likely to come when you will find that you have more understanding and would like to try again - I never ever shut the door on clients and it has to be the right time for them to seriously want to move on and invest in themselves, their health and their happiness.